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		<title>Leadership and Management Understood</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 18:42:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Schulte</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When it comes to effective leadership and getting results through others, it is important to remember the differences between the concepts of “Leadership” and “Management.” One easy way to remember the differences between the two is to remember this: Leaders should lead people while managing tasks, processes and resources.To understand this, simply ask anyone if [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tommyland.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2624548&amp;post=9&amp;subd=tommyland&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<div class="snap_preview"><span style="color:#000000;"> When it comes to effective <strong>leadership </strong>and getting results through others, it is important to remember the differences between the concepts of “Leadership” and “Management.” One easy way to remember the differences between the two is to remember this: Leaders should lead people while managing tasks, processes and resources.</span><span style="color:#000000;">To understand this, simply ask anyone if they would prefer to be lead by their boss, or would they prefer to be managed? Almost everyone would rather be lead. And, as you might imagine, managing a pile of paperwork would certainly be much easier than trying to lead it.</span></div>
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<p align="center"><span style="font-size:54pt;"><em></em></span><span style="font-size:54pt;color:#333399;"><em></em></span><span style="color:#333399;">~ The single most important</span></p>
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<p align="center"><span style="color:#333399;">is the knowing how to get</span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="color:#333399;">along with people.</span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="color:#333399;">~Theodore Roosevelt, 26th US President</span></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000000;"><strong>Here are some good reads on the topic of leadership</strong>:</span></p>
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<li><span style="color:#000000;"> “Authentic Leadership” by Bill George </span></li>
<li><span style="color:#000000;">“Primal Leadership” by Daniel Goleman </span></li>
<li><span style="color:#000000;">“The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership” by Dr. John C. Maxwell </span></li>
<li><span style="color:#000000;">“Executive Intelligence” by Justin Menkes<br />
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<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000000;">Think about a mindless stack of paperwork and then think about what comes along with your average human being. People come with a variety of complexities that makes it impossible to actually manage them as a whole. People we work with embody a multitude of attitudes, dispositions, histories, talents, troubles, families, preferences, values, achievements, skill sets, opinions and a ton of other components that make it very difficult to manage them through control. <strong>Leading people is actually a much easier task than managing people </strong>if you know how to motivate, navigate, and communicate with them as they are. If you don’t know how to do this, there’s hope! With some concerted effort, you can learn these proven methods.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000000;">The books listed above are a great place to begin understanding how to do this. It will take practice, but the payoff is huge! The <strong>key is to focus on what internally drives each person</strong> you lead and make sure that you are aligned with those intimate motivators when your are trying to get a job done through the efforts of complex creatures.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000000;">Just remember, if people would come to work and leave that long list of personal attributes at home, then we might actually have a chance to manage them. Unfortunately, they don’t, so our focus should be on how best to lead them to achieve the desired results.</span><span style="color:#000000;">I hope this helps you in your <strong>leadership journey</strong>!</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000000;">Tom Schulte | <a class="answerlink" href="http://www.answers.com/topic/chief-executive-officer?nafid=22">CEO</a> | Recalibrate Professional Development </span><span style="color:#000000;"><a title="www.leadershippowerlabs.com" href="http://www.leadershippowerlabs.com/" target="_blank"><br />
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		<title>Soft Skill Training for Leaders</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 18:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Schulte</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[During my many years of working in executive leadership development training with people from around the world, I have repeatedly seen that one of the most difficult areas for leaders to grow in is in the area of “soft-skills”. Often times leaders prefer to ignore this part of their development, because it’s either not high [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tommyland.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2624548&amp;post=8&amp;subd=tommyland&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><span class="bold">During my many years of working in <span class="bold"><b>executive leadership development training </b>with </span>people from around the world, I have repeatedly seen that one of the most difficult areas for leaders to grow in is in the area of “soft-skills”. Often times leaders prefer to ignore this part of their development, because it’s either not high on their priority list, or they can&#8217;t grasp all the steps it takes to master the important elements involved in building relationships. Many &#8220;old school&#8221; leaders who came from the <span class="bold">command-and-control mindset</span> think that soft-skills training is wishy-washy and it is a waste of their time. Led by management styles that blossomed from around the time of the industrial revolution to the Vietnam War era, their approach was simple: &#8220;<span class="italics"><i>Just get the job done!</i></span>&#8221; or, &#8220;<span class="italics"><i>My way, or the highway!</i></span>&#8221; That used to be sufficient to get people to jump at their commands, but no longer.</span></p>
<p>Cool Quote: <span> </span>&#8220;<b><i>Accept the fact that we have to treat almost anybody as a volunteer&#8230;</i></b>&#8221;   ~ Peter Drucker, Father of Modern Management</p>
<p><span style="color:black;">Times have changed and in a free society where valuable members of your workforce can walk away at any moment for a better opportunity, leaders should (as management guru Peter Drucker says) &#8220;treat almost anybody as a volunteer.&#8221; In order to lead volunteers, it takes an enormous amount of effort in soft skills and patience. It’s important to recognize that seismic shifts in workforce demographics are coming as baby boomers begin to retire in mass numbers. This will make the competition for talent even greater in the coming years. As a result, it will become even more critical for <b>leaders to embrace soft skills training</b>. Any company will gain the competitive edge when their leaders understand how to get better results through relationships and the added benefit of retaining their best people.</span></p>
<p>Recognizing the inability of current training courses in the leadership and team building fields to impact this issue on a truly compelling level, I began researching the best way to accomplish these goals. It became my passion to figure out how to grow leaders in this key area that was uniquely challenging for most. I found that the first step required was for leaders to learn to lead themselves. <b>Only then can a leader truly see the steps</b> it takes to lead and inspire others. This means coaching oneself first, which requires looking deep into the “leadership looking glass.” <span> </span>We all tend to focus on our strengths, but the areas we struggle with are often neglected and under developed. However, if you truly want to become a better leader, you must first honestly assess these areas that are holding you back. More often than not, this is a difficult task and requires some type of outside help. Once honest with yourself, you can then create an effective model for the people you lead on a daily basis.</p>
<p><span style="color:black;">This knowledge allowed me to begin creating a simple yet powerful curriculum to help leaders assess themselves and those they lead. It&#8217;s accomplished through an interactive values-based card sorting exercise. This effective tool and the curriculum built around it is called a </span><b><a href="http://www.leadershippowerlabs.com/" target="_blank" title="http://www.leadershippowerlabs.com/">Leadership PowerLab</a></b><span style="color:black;">, which helps teams and organizations create a more productive environment. Values-based leadership training focuses on teaching the nuts-and-bolts of personal leadership effectiveness. Even the old school leaders from yester-decade are more compelled to jump on board, because the interactive learning equips them to recalibrate themselves toward better relationships in a short amount of time. Their “recalibration” in turn produces the better results they so strongly desire. Through appreciation, honesty and respect, a workforce can be transformed from merely average to exceptional. In a sense, this “<b>high-impact leadership training fit for the Blackberry-Attention-Span</b>” is an effective crash course in <span class="bold">learning and practicing empathy, but t</span>his is a powerful skill which should not be overlooked or underestimated.</span></p>
<p>Effective soft-skills training requires a commitment from within. It is difficult for many and it takes patience and practice. However, with the <span style="font-family:Georgia;color:black;">right mindset and the right tools, you can learn to become a more effective leader and the rewards (both short and long term) will prove to be well worth your effort!</span></p>
<p>Tom Schulte | CEO | Recalibrate Professional Development<br />
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